đ Discover Your AI Style (Part 1)
A fun 2-part mini-series connecting your personality to AI
đ Your AI Personality Match, Part 1: Discovering Your Type
Hi M(AI)VENS,
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đ° This Week in AI: Parental Controls for ChatGPT (Sept. 2, 2025)
â ď¸ Sensitive topic warning
OpenAI has announced parental safety tools that will roll out in the next month. Parents will be able to monitor and manage their teenâs ChatGPT account, set restrictions, and receive alerts if the chatbot detects signs of distress.
The move comes after tragic incidents where ChatGPT interactions were linked to suicides. While OpenAI says this is part of its long-term safety plan, critics argue it doesnât go far enough.
This is heavy news, and it highlights something important: AI touches deeply personal areas of our lives. From how we parent, to how we work, to how we understand ourselves, the technology doesnât sit âout there.â Itâs showing up right in the middle of our daily choices.
Thatâs what got me thinking about todayâs main topic. If AI intersects with so many personal parts of life, then our personalities, our natural ways of thinking and approaching the world, must shape how we connect with it too. Which brings me to the start of a new two-part mini-series: Your AI Personality Match.
Everyone learns differently, right? What excites one person might feel exhausting to another.
Thatâs why I started exploring whether personality type could give us clues about our best starting points. And, I think it can.
This week (Part 1), Iâll walk you through how to discover your personality type and how I connected mine to my AI journey. Next week (Part 2), weâll dig into personality clusters with specific pathways for how different types might lean into AI.
⨠A Quick Look at MyersâBriggs
If youâve never taken the MyersâBriggs Type Indicator (MBTI), hereâs the basic framework. The system is built on four preference pairs. Choosing which side/option feels more natural to you is what shapes your four-letter type.
Extraversion (E) or Introversion (I): Do you recharge by being with people (E) or by spending time alone (I)?
Sensing (S) or Intuition (N): Do you focus on details and facts (S) or patterns and big-picture ideas (N)?
Thinking (T) or Feeling (F): Do you lean on logic and analysis (T) or values and empathy (F)?
Judging (J) or Perceiving (P): Do you prefer structure and plans (J) or flexibility and spontaneity (P)?
Put your preferences together, and youâll have your type. For example:
Iâm E + N + F + J = ENFJ.
Someone else might be I + S + T + P = ISTP, which is a very different style.
There are 16 possible combinations. None is better than another. Theyâre just different ways of approaching life.
đ My ENFJ Discovery
My result is ENFJ, sometimes called The Protagonist or The Community Builder.
Reading the description felt like a mirror. ENFJs are described as energetic, empathetic, and focused on helping others grow. They thrive on connection, rallying people together, and creating meaningful experiences. That sounded a lot like me.
It also helped me see why Iâve approached AI in the way I have. My instinct wasnât to use it in isolation. It was to build a place where women could learn together, share stories, and feel safe experimenting. Thatâs how and why M(AI)VENS was born.
𧊠Personality Patterns + AI
The way you naturally like to work, play, and connect can give you insight into how you might enjoy AI most.
Organizers often light up when AI helps them with structureâdrafting a schedule, reorganizing notes, or planning projects.
Creatives may feel energized when AI helps them journal, tell stories, or design visuals.
Analysts might enjoy AI as a research partner, summarizing articles or testing ideas.
Connectors often thrive when AI helps with communication, brainstorming, or building shared experiences.
Seeing yourself in one of these patterns can give you an easy entry point, rather than feeling like you need to try everything at once.
đ How ENFJ Shapes My AI Journey
For me, being an ENFJ shows up in how I use AI every week:
Earlier this year, I hosted community challenges like the 5-Minutes a Day AI Challenge, encouraging women to try something new each day.
I built M(AI)VENS as a community-first space where women can share ideas and personal experiences, not just download information.
I like to frame AI in human termsâconfidence, creativity, leadershipâbecause those are the entry points that feel natural to me and (I hope) to many of you.
I also appreciate structure, so I gravitate toward content calendars, themes, and step-by-step challenges. That blend of connection and order is my sweet spot.
When I think about my ENFJ style, itâs all about people and community. But if I were an INTJ, for example, I might approach AI with a strategy-first lens, using it to model scenarios, analyze risks, and refine long-term plans. An ISFP, on the other hand, might prefer playful creative uses like designing mood boards or experimenting with AI art. The point is, your personality doesnât just shape who you are in relationships or at work, it may also influence how AI feels useful for you.
đ Try Sketching Out Your Type
Now Iâd love for you to try.
Think about the four pairs above. Which side feels most like you? Write down your four letters.
If you already know your MyersâBriggs type, dust it off. If not, this quick self-check is enough to get a sense of where you land.
Think about how you naturally tackle challenges at work. Do you build a plan first? Jump in and test? Ask a friend? That same instinct often shows up in how youâll enjoy AI.
Then reflect:
Does your type describe the way youâve been approaching AI so far?
Does it point you toward a new way you might want to try, whether thatâs more structure, more creativity, more analysis, or more connection?
đ A Fun Assignment for the Week
Sketch out your type using the four pairs.
Share it in the comments or reply to this email. (Iâd love to see which personalities we have in our M(AI)VENS community.)
đŁ Coming Next Week: Personality Pathways + AI
This is Part 1 of a two-part mini-series. Today was about discovering your type and making the first connection between personality and AI.
Next week, weâll look at the personality clusters and explore specific AI pathways for each. Youâll see examples of how Organizers, Visionaries, Creatives, Analysts, and Connectors might lean into AI in ways that feel both energizing and useful.
⨠Little Things Iâm Loving
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The Bee's Knees is a timeless Prohibition-era cocktail. This one is a fun play on a mascot and feels like summer in a glass. Eubieâs Knees is a honey lemon liqueur crafted in celebration of the University of Baltimoreâs 100th anniversary, and itâs absolutely delicious. Gin + lemon + honey. Thatâs it! Itâs refreshing, light, and just the right amount of indulgent. Iâve been enjoying it poured over ice and it makes even an ordinary evening feel a little more special. Bonus: each bottle supports the University of Baltimore. đ
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đ Until next week, remember: the best way to learn AI is to start where it feels comfortable for you.
Cheyenne
Founder, M(AI)VENS
Note: Myers-BriggsÂŽ and MBTIÂŽ are registered trademarks of The Myers-Briggs Company. What Iâve shared here is my own perspective, meant for inspiration or entertainment, not as an official assessment.
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